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A L♥ve Like Ours…

is something to celebrate!

Love is of all passions the strongest, for it attacks simultaneously the head, the heart and the senses.

— Lao Tzu.

I wanted to create a place for the celebration of our love. Both a timeline and a contextualization of this “thing we are doing”. It has been magical and wonderful even when it is challenging, but it has never, not once, been boring!

Today, I want to love you the whole rainbow…

Go look at your beautiful face on the main floor…then check for a gift behind that door…

once the clock turns 8:24 come back to see what this page has in store!

Wellness Considerations

I have booked two “spa” appointments. (I may have also watched the film “Let Them Talk” a few times in preparation for the crossing.) The first is a facial, where I will surely be upsold products. My hope is that they will sell me stuff that I will then use religiously for the two weeks on board and form a habit, I will take back to land. The second is a massage, again booked early in the voyage with the hope of beginning the trip relaxed and grounded. I have been booking a thing here and thing there for a couple of months so that I can pay off these items as I go. I think this has been a great idea, and it allowed me to feel good about my investments in my future self.

Also, the gala calendar has been announced and we will be going through all four themes. Red and Gold, 20s, Black and White, and Masquerade. I think it will be fun! I look forward to seeing everyone dressed up! Though I also need to be sure to find some “smart attire” wear as well. The time pressure is on!

Today!

Welcome to purlow…purple…today!

And today, just as every other day that has passed, I love you more than the last. 

Today is a day for sweethearts and kindness, a day for love. For circles signifying that you complete me, that I’ll always be aROUND, that this love is never ending. Today is a day to let our hearts shine brightly, to do the everyday love things…check to make sure we are wearing our rings, bring a smile to one another as we both remember where we have been and plan we where are going…while always basking in the love we have right now, the love in front of us today.

The next little something is where I do my best creating, making, and baking, where things go round and round, you know circularly…I am excited to see you soon!

Tonight is for stargazing and for moon watching, a day to warm our hearts in the glow of the love we choose to create in our lives.

We number things, the dates and times, and so we know that our days are numbered, but our love continues to burst at the seams of the seconds. Our love is not easily contained in the minutes between clock chimes, it oozes from one second into the next hour and on into the infinite. This kind of love makes the energy of the universe pulse with light and life. Our love is a love that we nurture, that we choose, that we make every time we choose kindness and sweetness and turn toward one another even when we are hurt to mend our wounds. When we seek out the other to share a sorrow or a blessing or a laugh. It is that we choose love and to turn with our love back to the other over and over. That choice is love. To love when it is easy and when it is hard. Because we know our love is infinite, for always, forever, but we are squeezing it into this life we have, into this now. Every moment I am with you I want to freeze time so my heart can beat a few more times before the clock ticks. I want to go into the ever after and even if I know nothing else, I will know that I loved you well with everything that I had and wasted not a single moment holding back or choosing my words and always always told you, showed you, in every way I could think that to me this is THE love. The love everyone is seeking and writing about in fairy tales, this is the love they are seeking…little do they know that it must be created by two hearts from scratch with the will and the want to care deeply and bravely about another person…to become THIS love. Always and Forever…

Tonight, I want to love you to the moon and back…

We need to be here by 615pm tonight: 46.7305°, -117.1696°

And a little something to go with your evening can be found on a shelf that’s too high, because I’m always reaching for the stars…or lids to bowls…you know high stuff. And I love you because you have long arms and legs…and …yep a little black box on a high shelf…

Then we can caffeinate and play until 8…uhm more like 9, at which time we shall dine here…. 46.733890°, -117.001150°

11.07.2018 was Love³ Day!!

On November 7, 2018, we cubed our love³ and became a family of 3. That sweet baby made your heart smile through your eyes and we fell in love all over again with each other and with him. It was a wonder to see the woman I love become the mother of my son and the love grew and grew…and just keeps growing.

Our sweet tiny human left a little something blue, in the chair…under his achoo…er…shoes…uhm…boots…somewhere!!

Clue: Blue was the clue for this one…but the next one @3:11 pm is indigo/violet when you can’t tell the difference…you know purlow…uhm…or ______!

Prime Day

Before we even knew Amazon was going to create a prime day, we picked our own. On March 11, 2017 was the day we said our, “I do’s”!

Mine went something like this

And the next thing I know you are singing a song that will forever pull my heart strings into the words…rush in…please stay…this love could never be a sin…and so it was meant to be…

Clue: Just in time for lunch: 12:30 we are to the first letter of the last name of the rainbow man! (Oh, Roy G.!) While you wait, go through the baby gate to one of Oliver’s favorite No-no places! 🙂

11.24.2016

It was Vegas with bright lights and the chaching of slot machines. We were gambling and we walked all over looking for a photo booth. Finally, we decided for cupcakes and a break and you made the safest bet ever and asked me to marry you! I said, “Yes!” I was all in and the winnings double every minute, triple every hour, and quadruple every day. It has been 1,177 days since…and at just a penny…well it’s a lot of math…and a lotta lotta love later. 🙂

I really wanted you to stay with me…forever and always. And so far so good!

Clue 3: If you took my advice and treated your feet from the comfy seat, you are staring right at our biggest TV, and just behind it you will find a little treat for you…as sweet as my heart and almost as big.

You know the rainbow drill by now…next release at 11:11 am (cause wishes)… Oh and by 630pm we should be at the first location for the evening.

06.16.2016

The day I wrote out the fairy tale and you agreed to be the Queen.

I picked the day because it was the most auspicious and because it had traditionally been floor dart day. I had tried to plan so carefully the special evening, but night was both cold and bright. I had the fireplace ready to warm you up. By the time it was dark enough for you to see the video outside in the backyard with the twinkly lights, it was too dark for the music box to know there was light so it would play. And even with this perfectly imperfect evening you said, “Yes!” And here we are and so it went…

Clue #2: We won’t be walking much this evening, so grab a towel (or two) and look behind the couch for a little comfort while you wait, then check back for the next blog post at 11:08.

There are still more hearts to come…cause I love you the rainbow…at 11:08 this blog will show you the next clue in exchange for a password …

the third color of the

rain

bow

Our Love

The first time we sent a million texts, it was a hot July and you were away. My heart fluttered at every notification. But even before then, it had already began…

The next month was straight up infinity (8)…and on the 24th of August 2014 we decided to name this “thing we are doing”. We named it “Love” and said it would last forever and always.

And then…we went to Dave Matthews at the Gorge, then Houston/Galveston, road-tripped to Michigan, flew to New York for the New Year (YAY 2015), added Charlie and Beau to our sweet home, and our adventure was underway!

Clue 1: At 5:30pm …we will gather our lovely selves into a car…and to see the next post at 9:10am on this blog…think of the rainbow…

The second color of the rainbow…

is the password…